Paid egg donor wanted

[MinnesotaSmith]

Just curious what will you do if the test results come back negative?

My wife and I would soon OWN every penny to the doctor's name, and much of what he'd earn in the future. Re about the child? I honestly don't know; my wife and I have trouble imagining that possibility except intellectually. Our only choices would be to keep and raise the baby, or to put it up for adoption (remember, this is in the first month after birth; a healthy Caucasian infant would be snapped up by a first-rate family that unlike us finds adoption compatible with their values).

Anyway, the odds of such a fraud being perpetrated upon us are apparently less than one in a thousand. With the more usual way of producing babies carrying a cuckoldry rate of up to 30% per baby among Americans, this is actually way "safer" that way than the usual way. (I would have done a paternity test on an infant produced by a wife the usual way in any event, given that rate.)

[MinnesotaSmith]

We've found probably enough candidates through agencies that look like they'd do for us, I believe. Wifey has a 3-day weekend this weekend, and has volunteered to compile the spreadsheet of the candidates, print the emails I've had with agencies, etc. We're strongly expecting that we will be able to pull the trigger early next week and tell one of the 3 or 4 agencies that we're repeatedly talking to that we want to go with their donor in particular.

BTW, the actual donor fees are higher than I'd expected, for the private agencies that don't have a DMV "take it or leave it" attitude such as the university teaching hospital programs seem to have. Looks like more like $6K is what a donor could expect to get paid by us for her time and trouble (not counting transportation, nice motel, meals, etc.) while in N. TX.

Oh, and if anyone knows a potential donor that could use that amount of lawfully-acquired money towards her education, starting a business, getting a bunch of preps, improving her family's land, health care costs of someone in her family, or (IMO best of all) towards starting her own family with her husband, the possibility is still there for now. I rather like the idea that that amount of money would go to someone at least connected to the prepper community.
(She could even be paid in PMs, if desired.)

[LONER]

NEVER!!!! NEVER!!!! NEVER....would I EVER allow you to have any kind of contact with an egg of mine!! I would NOT want a child of mine to be raised by NAZIS!!!

[MinnesotaSmith]

NEVER!!!! NEVER!!!! NEVER....would I EVER allow you to have any kind of contact with an egg of mine!! I would NOT want a child of mine to be raised by NAZIS!!!

I'm neither a socialist (as the National SOCIALISTS unabashedly were), nor at all inclined to put in place the many feminist doctrines that they were, and neither is my wife. So, the child (or children, there's a good chance of twins) my wife and I are going to have (birth a little bit into the new year or or so?) will definitely not be raised by Nazis.

Now that you've chosen to violate Godwin's Law of internet discussions, you are almost certainly logically and factually in the wrong. You managed to achieve that in a single sentence, of a merely TWO sentence post. Usually it takes a pretty severe case of political correctness to achieve going intellectually wrong that badly, that rapidly. Hmmm...

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http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=godwin's%20law

Godwin's Law:

"A term that originated on Usenet, Godwin's Law states that as an online argument grows longer and more heated, it becomes increasingly likely that somebody will bring up Adolf Hitler or the Nazis. When such an event occurs, the person [loner] guilty of invoking Godwin's Law has effectively forfeited the argument."

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How feminism and Naziism have a great deal in common:

http://www.angryharry.com/esFeminismandNazism.htm

[Lucky Guy]

MS, I think you lack the skills set that's really required to be an effective parent. I think you obviously have the whole sperm/egg thing covered, but over the years you seem to lack some of the social skills that are needed. I'm not trying to slam you, but you seem to be excessively rigid, lack empathy, and fail to see things beyond the clear black and white. You appear to really need to be in control, and although you are courteous, you appear to not have the ability to socially think and act on the fly. Have you heard these things about yourself before?

You seem to have put a lot of work into the finding the surrogate and egg thing, and I hope you put even more effort into relationship part of being a parent. From where I stand, there are some things you really need to work on.

When you acheive that is when you earn the title of dad.

Good Luck!

[bobcat 53]

MS, I think you lack the skills set that's really required to be an effective parent. I think you obviously have the whole sperm/egg thing covered, but over the years you seem to lack some of the social skills that are needed. I'm not trying to slam you, but you seem to be excessively rigid, lack empathy, and fail to see things beyond the clear black and white. You appear to really need to be in control, and although you are courteous, you appear to not have the ability to socially think and act on the fly. Have you heard these things about yourself before?

You seem to have put a lot of work into the finding the surrogate and egg thing, and I hope you put even more effort into relationship part of being a parent. From where I stand, there are some things you really need to work on.

When you acheive that is when you earn the title of dad.

Good Luck![/quote]


You have no idea who my husband really is. I am proud to be his wife and even prouder to be the mother of our future children. Take a look deep inside yourself before you and others throw stones.

[Bigbear77]

I rather like the idea that that amount of money would go to someone at least connected to the prepper community.

You've most likely looked into this already, but if not, how about checking some of the Mensa SIGs in your area? We have some in this area of the country that focus on shooting and related RKBA interests. Not strictly prepper but the members generally lean in that direction.

Just a thought...

[MinnesotaSmith]

You've most likely looked into this already, but if not, how about checking some of the Mensa SIGs in your area? We have some in this area of the country that focus on shooting and related RKBA interests. Not strictly prepper but the members generally lean in that direction.

Just a thought...

Thank you for sharing that idea with us.

I was in MENSA briefly way back in undergrad days (it wasn't that hard to get in, an ACT of 27 did it, I think), but haven't been active since.

Not many people in MENSA young enough to be egg donors themselves, but they do have younger sisters, nieces, daughters in college, etc.

Maybe that's not such a bad idea.

Thanks for (politely) posting.

[HouseWolf]

Thread now closed at OP's request.