My mother commited suicide more than 13 years ago and I have been tortured by thoughts of her going to hell ever since even though she was a very good woman. No, I'm not Catholic.
She had cancer and the radiation therapy was making her go blind. I know she was in a very deep depression at the time and nothing I said was able to console her, including trying to get her to move in with me. I was 700 miles away at the time and I've been struggleing with this ever since.

I would really appreciate any input from those that are more educated in this than I am.....although I'm trying to catch up.

Thank you in advance as this is a very tough subject for me. And please, tell me the truth....not what you may think I want to hear.