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Meet Mae

One day I had a date for lunch with friends. Mae, a little old "blue
hair" about 80 years old came along with them---all in all, a pleasant
bunch.

When the menus were presented, we ordered salads, sandwiches, and soups,
except for Mae, who said, "Ice Cream, please. Two scoops, chocolate." I
wasn't sure my ears heard right, and the others were aghast.

"Along with heated apple pie," Mae added, completely unabashed.

We tried to act quite nonchalant, as if people did this all the time...
but when our orders were brought out, I didn't enjoy mine. I couldn't
take my eyes off Mae as her pie a-la-mode went down. The other ladies
showed dismay. They ate their lunches silently and frowned..

The next time I went out to eat, I called and invited Mae. I lunched on
white meat tuna. She ordered a parfait. I smiled. She asked if she amused
me. I answered, "Yes, you do, but also you confuse me. How come you
order rich desserts, while I feel I must be sensible?"

She laughed and said, with wanton mirth, "I'm tasting all that is
possible. I try to eat the food I need, and do the things I should.
But life's so short, my friend, I hate missing out on something good.
This year I realized how old I was. (She grinned) I haven't been this
old before. So, before I die, I've got to try those things that for years
I had ignored. I haven't smelled all the flowers yet. There are too many
books I haven't read. There's more fudge sundaes to wolf down and kites to
be flown overhead. There are many malls I haven't shopped. I've not
laughed at all the jokes. I've missed a lot of Broadway hits and potato
chips and cokes."

Mae went on, "I want to wade again in water and feel ocean spray on my face.
I want to sit in a country church once more and thank God for His grace.
I want peanut butter every day spread on my morning toast.
I want un-timed long distance calls to the folks I love the most. I
haven't cried at all the movies yet, or walked in the morning rain. I need
to feel wind in my hair. I want to fall in love again."

"So, if I choose to have dessert, instead of having dinner, then should I
die before night fall, I'd say I died a winner, because I missed out on
nothing. I filled my heart's desire. I had that final chocolate mousse
before my life expired."

With that, I called the waitress over.... "I've changed my mind," I said.
"I want what she is having, only add some more whipped cream!"

When something good comes along and I am tempted to pass because of dieting, or when I would like to do something fun with my family but instead think of all the the household chores that might need doing I like to remind myself of all the women on the Titanic who passed up the dessert cart at dinner.