You don't seem to get it.
God is in total control of all that.
For those God foreknew, He also predestined
to be conformed to the image of His Son,
so that He would be the firstborn among many brothers.
And those He predestined He also called;
those He called He also justified;
those He justified He also glorified.
What then shall we say in response to these things?
If God is for us, who can be against us?
Romans 8:29-31